Across various fields, from education to business and politics, we've embraced a "win at all "mentality, often leaving individuals emotionally, mentally, and physically damaged. This focus on the result neglects the human cost of achieving these victories. It's time we redefine success, focusing on developing champions in life, regardless of wins or . This approach is about asking the right questions, focusing on the experience and process rather than just the outcome. Listening , without the need to respond or be right, can unlock profound insights and healing, as seen with gymnast Kyla Ross, who shared her experience of abuse and found strength in . We must redefine success beyond wins, fostering an environment where individuals feel valued, heard, and empowered.